The bride’s bridal shower is important because it is the time when friends and family visit the bride to celebrate before the big day. But the dilemma remains: What to wear? Today we are going to ease your fashion worries, by exploring the dos and don’ts of attire.
Is grey too close to white? Well, my dear readers, this answer is not nearly as black and white as you might think. A bridal shower is a celebration of the bride and as such we want to make sure that she stays the main focus. Traditionally, white is a big no-no because it’s reserved for the bride-to-be. But light grey? Now that’s where things get incredibly interesting.
While Grey May Not Be as Taboo as White, It’s Important to Consider the Shade.
A true solid light grey that’s almost white-like gets some questions, especially without something to break it up. But a grey dress with a bright floral print or something like that in combination with bold shoes and accessories is a nice way to avoid any bridal faux pas.
For instance, black is often felt to be too somber, or cumbering, a celebratory event. And anything that even remotely seemed tight, sexy, or revealing? Save it for the after-party. Since bridal showers are all about elegance and grace, it’s best to be a classy buttoned-up event.
Of course, what type of bridal shower you are attending also plays a role in your outfit choice. Are you at a fancy country club affair or a low-key backyard shindig? It will depend on whether you are wearing a cocktail dress and heels, or a breezy sundress and flats.
The best advice I can offer you would be to know and understand both your audience and the bride’s preferences. If she’s the kind of dame who is into a more serious, formal attitude on her events, then, play it a little safe, and go with something a tad dressier. If she’s casual and laid back, then that light grey dress, paired with something like statement jewelry or a color scarf would make her day.
Remember to keep in mind that the bridal shower is a time to remember new beginnings and the road ahead. Small Note: Dressing appropriately is important, but it’s also important to wear something that will make you feel confident and happy. And where else would a radiant smile be more appropriate than on a bridal shower?
It’s all about finding the sweet spot between wedding-appropriate and party fun. You don’t want to show up dressed silly, but you also don’t want to roll your neck out in an ill-fitting and painful suit and tie. So, let’s look at how to put together an outfit that will make you feel both comfortable and chic for the upcoming bridal shower.
If it’s a more formal event than the former, then a knee-length cocktail dress or a pair of silk pants with a nice blouse is your best bet. Add a touch of elegance with a tailored jacket or a velvet blazer, and complete the look with heels and a clutch. During the daytime, a sundress or a shirt with a lighter fabric skirt or trousers would be suitable. A statement necklace or a pair of dangly earrings will make it all pop.
As those supplies tend to be brightly colored neutrals and pastels, they all fit in nicely with the point of a bridal shower which is supposed to be a joyous occasion. If you’re the sort that is drawn toward darker shades, a soft grey or navy is a better idea than black, which can read very somber. Keep in mind, that light grey is totally alright, but only if it’s different enough from white, so that it doesn’t look like a mistake..
Any floral print is so classic for bridal showers, it oozes romance and femininity! But if florals aren’t your thing, try stripes, polka dots, or even a tiny geometric pattern. It all comes down to finding the right print that will help go along with the event vibe without looking overpowering.
The event can involve sitting, standing, or playing games so you want to pick a look that won’t hold you back. Smart options are flowy dresses, wide-leg pants, and skirts with a bit of stretch. Don’t forget about footwear—consider the terrain of the venue for that. Flat shoes or wedges will be more practical if you are outdoors.
Accessorizing Your Outfit Is Where You Can Truly Let Your Personality Shine.
What makes a dress feminine, is a BOLD shoe, a hue of lipstick, a purse, or a jacket. Adding a pop of color is key. Whatever style your jewelry is—chunky bracelet or precious pendant—she can be glamorous. All of this just so long as you don’t overshadow the bride—we’re supposed to call this HER special day.
Regarding your light grey dress conundrum; does the season have anything to do with it and the style of the dress? If it’s a spring or summer event then maybe you’d prefer something more colorful. But if the dress has some pointy details such as ruffles, lace, or an interesting neckline, it might work perfectly for you, provided the accessories are right.
There’s no reason dressing for a bridal shower should end up being a daunting task. If you don’t know what you look like, it’s still possible to put together an appropriate ensemble with some thought and creativity.
Remember what venue, dress code, and season, and don’t be afraid to put some color or add a fun accessory. First things, last but certainly not least, wear it with a big smile and heart full of joy that they are starting this journey of marriage. To love, laughter, and a fun bridal shower look!
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